Some Food For Thought

We'd like to take this opportunity to talk about the serious side of the skeptics. At times, this blog gives us an opportunity to laugh at some of the silly and dumb things these fools say they believe. But in reality, it can all turn very ugly.

We know of women who have tried to get inside information from crew members at shows. We know of women who have made trips to find where Keith Urban lives. We know of women who have made up entire conversations/relationships with Urban, and then posted them to other skeptics. We know women who think they are soul mates with Keith. There's daily messages, clearly labeled and dated, so they think he's sure to see them. We know there are women fixated on Urban's wife for all the wrong reasons. We know there are women that would follow Keith Urban to the ends of the earth. And we know why these women have a fondness for Amanda....she was one of them.


These whackjobs somehow always find a way to each other. This blogger wasn't around in the early days but we've been caught up to speed. I'm sure some readers can remember Crazy Amanda. Buck50 and Crazy Amanda are one in the same. We've been told Amanda used to post on Keith Urban message boards and pretend to be his lover. She lived in Nashville so she was able to get access to him and later present a story full of lies to get a big fat check. But you see, if the skeptics we hear from today were 20 years younger and could have done what Amanda did, they would have. It's why they are joining other young and new country male artist fanclubs. Easier access that way when they're still climbing that career ladder. No, for them no one compares to Keith Urban but it's a fantasy life they are after and damn anyone that tries to get in the way. Read the early posts of the Jimmy Wayne thread. A woman who chose some other artists to follow a little to closely became their good buddy. Why? Because, as KU has said, cliches are cliches for a reason. Birds of a feather...Peas in a pod...


But how bad can it get? Ask Gary Allan. He was unfortunate enough to have a female fan who went over the edge. She stalked him and even trashed his house. The worst part is she put all the blame on him. In her mind Gary was obsessed with her. Gary was the one who ruined her life. Is putting the blame on someone else sounding familiar readers? In her laundry list of accusations she's claimed that Allan wrote songs about her, emailed her incessantly, and bugged her phone. She also accused Allan of using drugs, having affairs with underage women, and of having phone sex with her on several occasions. Would it shock you to know she admitted Allan wasn't the first person to request a restraining order on her? Would it shock you to know she was obsessed with an Allan band member and then moved onto the singer? We don't think so.

Sometimes, there's nothing like a visual to get your point across. Thanks to a reader sending us a link, we have video of Walker on a rampage where she trashed Allan's property.



Now of course we can't talk about this without including Nicole Kidman. Unfortunately she's had her fair share of stalkers and that's not including Jamie Fawcett. We bring this up because the skeptics have an outrageous way of arguing in favor of stalking and in their minds they are defending themselves.

Kidman used to live in L.A. with her two oldest children. During that time she received some disturbing letters from a man who wanted to "tutor" them. He went to her house numerous times bringing her flowers. She had to go to court to get a restraining order put on him. What does he do? Sues Kidman, journalists, and various media groups for $200 million dollars on the grounds of libel. He said his reputation was ruined for being called a stalker.

That's L.A. But now, it's not simply crazy fans that celebrities need to watch out for. Ask Nicole Richie. She was recently granted a restraining order against two L.A. paps because they do exactly what the skeptics say they don't do. They stalked her. They followed her day after day in her vehicle driving around L.A. They caused a car accident which they shamelessly filmed after impact. They continued to follow her after that incident. They camped outside her home and yelled at her when she left to get her to respond on camera. If this isn't the definition of stalking we don't know what is.

So we come back to the skeptics. When Nicole Kidman was back in L.A. temporarily, they had some not-so-helpful suggestions. If she doesn't want to be followed and photographed don't leave the house. If she doesn't want to be followed and photographed don't go to the same place twice. If she doesn't want to be photographed too bad, the photographers are just "doing their job". The problem is that's irrelevant when paps are watching you sunup to sundown. Not to mention the next day they say Kidman personally hired them. Make no mistake, the skeptics condone this outrageous behavior.


This will be the last blog until after Thanksgiving weekend. Just something to think about, and we encourage you if you have information regarding anything disturbing aimed at the Urbans to please contact the proper channels. Please note, we are not trying to cause panic or insinuate anything is being planned. However, a handful of readers over the past 6 or so months have asked that this be discussed. The topic has been put off long enough and this blog feels it's a good idea to address the dark side of things sooner than later.


With that out of the way, let's enjoy the holiday season and all that is to come.


HAPPY THANKSGIVING!